found this on a blog had to post !!

So let’s explain how we going to destroy this slave master that is hiding in your head. The first thing you need to do is realize you got this one life that is a gift to you from God. And you need to take ownership of your life, do you and don’t apologize or explain yourself to anybody in this world. The second thing you need to do is make sure anybody and I mean any motherf*cking body even dare give you the notion you have to explain yourself or prove yourself to them, you get real explicit with their ass. You make everybody else in the world know you ain’t the one to be f*cked with and you will give them a money back guarantee their life will never be the same again if they choose to f*ck with you. You believe in yourself and you don’t take sh*t from no one because your life is a gift from God.
Next, you put in work to empower yourself to enforce who you are to everybody out there. You focus on having knowledge and skills you can leverage to build up capital – that means get an education. You learn how to use weaponry and Art of War tactics to maneuver against your enemies and become an expert at that. You also get a crew or join a crew that will have your back when you need them. Most important, you learn to have no compassion, spare no quarter and have no mercy going at your enemies to make an example out of them to show everybody that you will defend your gift from God which is your life and your identity.
And last, you start doing what the f*ck you want to do and start saying ish exactly how the f*ck you feel about it. You see someone trying to play you for a fool, you straight tell them upfront what’s up and you don’t play that nonsense. You see something going on in this world that ain’t right and cats trying to get away with it, you bust them out on it. You stand up and be a hero for yourself, defending what you believe in and even better, enforcing what you believe in. You say what you mean and you mean what you say. You make sure if someone got a problem with it, they going to have a problem with it. You don’t hold your tongue, you don’t deny how you feel and you be honest about everything around you.
Trust me, when you learn to treat your life as a one-time gift, when you learn how to cultivate yourself with education and the Art of War and learn to speak your mind and express how you feel, that is when you will become a free person. And that slave master hiding inside your head will have been ran away like a punk beotch who only was around because he thought you was weak. So real talk, stop being about that sellout, subservient sh*t because the biggest weapon a brotha or sista can use to prevail over a system of White Privilege is a free-thinking mind.